The Goldilocks Problem

A frequent question set to me in the last few years is, 'you are really nice... why aren't you married yet?' As if I had some horrid character trait or hidden secret that was keeping the myriad of eligible bachelors at bay. These well-meaning but very annoying people sound like they expected me to be... Continue Reading →

Does friendship have boundaries?

This post arises out of a question asked of me. 'Should guys limit how close they are to girls who are in relationships and vice versa?' To keep my scenarios simple I am going to speak about a guy who is friends with a girl who has a boyfriend. But the genders can be swapped... Continue Reading →

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